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Memorial created 11-16-2006 by
Kay Scruggs
Joshua Lee Scruggs
October 23 1987 - March 20 2006

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03-20-2017 6:45 PM -- By: Just a mom,  From: Tennessee  

Hi Kay,

I just saw your message on Joshua's virtual memorial today to email you. I had left a message there with my son, Ryan Frye's virtual memorial site to honor Josh's birthday.

Today can be hard. I hope you are doing well. I know it does not really get easier. We just get used to it I think.

Feel free to email me back here if you would like to.

I have a blog site as well at:


Take care,


Ryan P Frye's Mom


"As long as I live you live and as Iong as I breathe you will be remembered!"

03-20-2017 1:24 PM -- By: Michelle,  From:  

 Sorry for your loss. May the hearer of prayers strengthen and comfort you at this time. (2Corinthians 1:3,4)

10-25-2016 7:26 PM -- By: ,  From:  

 This is to Ryan P Frye's Mom Jeanne, please email me at kaysmail@blomand.net or find me on Facebook under Kay Muncey Scruggs. I'd love to talk to you. Thank you for your kind words in Josh's guestbook. I look foward to hearing from you.

10-23-2016 7:10 PM -- By: Just a mom,  From: Tennessee  

I am just a mom who lost her son. My heart broke that day. It has not recovered. Oh sure, I get up every day. I go to work. I talk to people. I smile. I tell every one I am ok. I lie. I still cry everyday when I am alone. Truth be told, I just plain miss my boy. I guess you would understand....

That being said, I did not know Joshua, but I wanted to pay tribute to him today. Birthdays, holidays and passing days are hard on those left behind. It is clear he is loved and dearly missed. He was a handsome guy, gone too soon. Love each other, hug each other, forgive each other...every day. You are not alone, not today. He is with you in spirit, just as my Ryan is with me. I believe that. I have to. It keeps me going and it keeps him alive to me. So, you are in my thoughts today. Take care. Always and forever Ryan P Frye's Mom Jeanne

04-23-2015 8:06 PM -- By: Hannah,  From: Tennessee  

I visited your grave today. The first time I have ever been. I know we didn't really Know each other well or very long, but we spent enough time together for you to stay in my memory. I really wish we could have spent more time together. I wish things would have turned out different, maybe if you was here they would have, but you are in a better place. No more pain, tears, or sorrow.

11-10-2014 9:13 PM -- By: Mom,  From: Home  

 Thinking of you my sweet son, I miss you so much my heart aches till I feel it will burst. You're always in my heart and on my mind. I love you always Josh!

09-16-2014 4:40 PM -- By: Ashley,  From:  

"He will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away". Revelation 21:4

06-05-2014 5:20 PM -- By: Mom,  From: Home  

 I miss you my son, so very much. Some days I still feel like I can call out your name and you'll be there. I send you my love every moment of my life! Love Mom.

12-01-2013 8:28 PM -- By: leah,  From: australia  

i came s across your gorgeous son joshs memorial n how lovely it is, he radiats love through his pictures u get a sence that he is a warm very caring young man whom endured a great battle wit dinrty , im sorry for your loss n that of all who loved josh n ill keep you all in my thoughts n prayers

10-23-2013 7:47 PM -- By: Mom,  From: Home  

Save a seat for me
at the table beside you
and tell everyone that I am on my way 

If I have to knock on every mansion door
walk miles of golden streets
search among the million saints
that rest at Jesus's feet
I will run along the jasper walls
call your name upon the bend
I will find you again

09-26-2013 3:04 PM -- By: Mom,  From: Home  

I miss you my Angel!

04-19-2013 11:45 AM -- By: Mom,  From: Home  

I'm missing you so much today. I dreamed of you again as I do most nights. This one seemed so real I didn't want to wake. You were home and life was normal. I will never know normal again unless it is in a dream. I still miss you and think of you constantly. I love you always  and forever my precious Angel son.

Love Mom

02-14-2013 12:33 PM -- By: Mom,  From: Home  

Happy Valentine's Day my precious Angel. You're always in my heart! Love and miss you forever and always!

11-30-2012 6:45 PM -- By: Stella Connor,  From: South Carolina  

God Bless You!

11-19-2012 11:11 AM -- By: Dynasty "Dee",  From: McMinnville  

I miss you josh and love you I think about you all the time and all our memories we had together love u your always going to be my best friend dynasty

11-14-2012 6:40 AM -- By: ,  From:  


5:28, 29) . . .the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice 29 and come out. . .

11-14-2012 6:39 AM -- By: ,  From:  

Kay, I'm so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. But it does not have to be final. I'd like to share with you this thought provoking sentiments that I've read: "If death would keep mankind perpetually in its binds, it would be stronger than God, wouldn't it? Surely, death is no match for the all-powerful Source of life!" I hope you find comfort in the promise His son made that "...All those in the memorial tomb will hear his voice and come out..."

10-24-2012 8:07 PM -- By: Peyton,  From:  

I've been thinking about you a lot lately. It's hard to believe I'm 19 now. I miss being a little kid and going to Granny's. I remember times when you and Daniel would be over there and Granny would fix us breakfast and I'd watch yall play video games. I'm in college now. It's weird how time just keeps flying by. I know I will see you someday either when He comes back to get His children or the day when I pass. I love and miss you Josh.  

09-24-2012 10:00 PM -- By: Mom,  From:  

For me you'll always be 18
And beautiful and dancing away with my heart

I love you always my Angel, not a day goes by that my heart does not ache for you. Things are changing since you went away and time keeps going on, but  for me you'll always be 18 and beautiful and dancing away with my heart.

09-14-2012 4:49 PM -- By: ,  From:  

What a beautiful tribute to your boy, Joshua. I want to express my sincere condolences for your great loss, I can not imagine what you (and Josh) have been through

anyway God Bless and take care.





08-10-2012 3:22 PM -- By: Mom,  From:  

I miss you every day but today seems extra lonely. I wish I could talk with you my Angel. I love you always!

05-19-2012 1:30 AM -- By: Mom,  From: home  

Thinking of you as always my angel. Wishing I could talk to you for just awhile like we use too. I love you son!

05-09-2012 3:10 PM -- By: Mom,  From: Home  

I had a dream about you son and all the pain of the one day, those few brief moments, all came rushing back. I know you are happy and pain free where you are now, its does not stop my heart from missing you so much. I love you sweet boy, and miss you more than words can ever say.

Love forever, Mom

04-29-2012 2:31 AM -- By: Mom,  From: Home  

Thinking of you my precious son! I miss you so very much! I love you always!

04-08-2012 10:24 PM -- By: Mom,  From:  

Happy Easter in Heaven my Angel son! I love you and miss you so much!

04-04-2012 10:47 PM -- By: Judy,  From: Canada  

what a wonderful tribute to your son Joshua,my thoughts and prayers are with you.

03-21-2012 9:07 PM -- By: Alan ,  From: Left behind  


A day after Josh's 6th angelversary; I have come back to pay my respects, once again.

Sorry that I wasn't here to comment in his guestbook yesterday. I have been traveling back and forth from my hometown to my father's (where I grew up)...a 3 hour drive one way. He was diagnosed with a inoperable tumor never his liver a couple of weeks ago. They are trying to keep him alive for about 6 months. Without these treatments...he only has 3 months...maybe less. Not much that we can do.....disheartening.

I see that you paid me a ultimate award and put my statement on Josh's 6th angelversary page. I have another one for you; I'll add it here. I didn't write all of it as I did the other; but, added to it.

How Long Will The Pain Last ?

"How long will the pain last?"
A broken-hearted mourner asked me.
"All the rest of your Life,"

I have to answer truthfully.
We never quite forget.
No matter how many years pass, we remember.
The loss of a loved one is like a major operation.
Part of us is removed, and we have a scar
... For the rest of our lives.

As years go by, we manage.
There are things to do, people to care for,
Tasks that call for full attention.
But the pain is still there, not far below the surface.
We see a face that looks familiar,
Hear a voice that echoes,
See a photograph in some one's album,
See a landscape that once we saw together,
And it seems as though
A knife were in the wound again.
But not so painfully,
And mixed with joy, too,

Because remembering a happy time is not all sorrow;
It brings back some happiness with it, too.

How long will the pain last?
"All the rest of your life."

But the thing to remember
Is that not only will the pain last,
But the blessed memories as well.
Tears are proof of life;
The more love, the more tears.

If this be true, then how could we ever ask
That the pain cease altogether?
For then the memory of love would go with it.
The pain of grief is the price we pay for love.

Do you release balloons on Josh's birthdays and angelversaries? We still do. There are less and less family and friends attending the get-together on these dates each year. They have "moved on" and are busy living their own lives and soon forget. I look at their Facebook pages and see that most all of them have their own families now. I can only look at their faces and see how they have aged within the last 5 years....and look at the pictures of their young children.....and only wonder what Crawford would have looked like at this age and the grand-children he would have given us. I know that you do the same with Josh. All parent do.

Thinking of you and Josh today and everyday as I grieve with you for the losses of our sons.......as only another parent that has lost their precious son.......CAN.

With only memories left of our boys.......

03-20-2012 5:21 PM -- By: Mom,  From:  

I love you so much my Angel son!

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